Be worthy
You are worthy. We are all. Period. End of story.
When faced with trauma, it is easy to tell yourself that you are unworthy, somehow responsible, and aren’t capable of stopping it from running your life.
I have had 8 years and counting of my own interpersonal challenges (not by choice). I found another way. I claimed my worthiness. It started with me putting a line in the sand that I was worthy of:
being heard
using my own voice
being respected as mother, co-parent, aunt, sister and friend
having privacy
being protected
having my own relationships
parenting my kids as I have for their life time
living the life I deserved
and so on and so forth.
It take a second to redirect your life to the one you want (and deserve).